A difficult conversation: Suicide and its impacts

Starting on Saturday, people experiencing mental health distress can call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988. (Eddie Gaspar/The Texas Tribune, Eddie Gaspar/The Texas Tribune)

HOUSTON – Death by suicide is not an easy conversation to have.

Recently, KPRC 2 Investigates’ Joel Eisenbaum set out to understand how a woman could end up in the jaws of an alligator. The possibility that it could be linked to suicide wasn’t considered until he spoke with Robin Puryear’s family.

According to her son, Daniel Puryear, she had previous suicide attempts. He shared a note his mom penned to him before her fateful walk, and the pain he and his family are experiencing is excruciating.

“It took so much time and so much energy,” he said.

The Texas Department of State Health Services reported that 4,296 Texans died by suicide in 2023, including 168 individuals under the age of 18.

Mental Health America (MHA) of Greater Houston emphasizes that many suicides can be prevented by asking a tough question: “Do you have a plan to commit suicide?”

If the answer is yes, call 911 and inform the operator that you need a ‘Crisis Intervention Team’ because it’s a ‘mental health emergency.’

If the answer is no, there is still time to get your loved one the necessary help.

Sarah Barlament and Nicole Milton from MHA Houston suggest that you can play a critical role in suicide prevention by fostering open conversations, offering support, and educating yourself on the warning signs.

Warning Signs of Suicide

There are seven key suicide warning signs to be aware of:

  • Expressions of hopelessness and helplessness
  • Previous suicide attempts
  • Daring or risk-taking behavior
  • Personality changes
  • Depression
  • Giving away prized possessions
  • Lack of interest in future plans

If you notice any of these signs, try to talk to your loved one in a place where they feel safe. It’s important not to be judgmental or shocked by what they are saying but to listen genuinely.

Conversation continues with Nicole Milton of Mental Health America of Greater Houston (Photo courtesy of KPRC 2 Investigates' Senior Producer Jason Nguyen) (Copyright 2024 by KPRC Click2Houston - All rights reserved.)

According to experts, the biggest mistake people often make is attempting to counsel them. If your loved one needs help and you need support, call or text 988, the national crisis hotline, to get resources as soon as possible.

Learn more by watching the full interview with KPRC 2+.


About the Author

As an Emmy award-winning journalist, Jason strives to serve the community by telling in-depth stories and taking on challenges many pass over. When he’s not working, he’s spending time with his girlfriend Rosie, and dog named Dug.

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